Tag: Presence

Learning to Wait

A short poem from my journal this morning.

I’ve trained my mind to be anxious

always in need of something

always doing

always planning

never quite ready

as though I can be ready

now I learn to wait

to keep this moment nameless

and watch with simple curiosity

the wildflower emerging

from the untilled soil

It is easy to be perpetually distracted. Caught in the trance of thinking, projecting, chasing and judging. Always in a rush to the next thing.

So much so that we miss opportunities, connections, details and even beautiful moments that are right in front of us.

Our experience of work becomes shaped by the fear that we might miss out on something and so we do, in fact, miss out on something.

A few deep breaths, a quieting of our minds, a pause, can calm the waters so that we once again experience the ocean and not just the waves.

  • We can see the struggle in the other person and respond with empathy
  • We can speak words that encourage, connect and inspire
  • We can ask questions that open our minds to new possibilities
  • We can choose to act from our values and our true intentions
  • We can allow what needs to happen, to happen, or the cycle will continue

Sometimes the best answers come from not knowing.

Sometimes the deepest experiences come from not expecting.

Sometimes the right actions come from not doing.

Learn to wait.

 

 

 

Thoughts On Being Available

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“We’re in this life, and if you’re not available, the sort of ordinary time goes past and you didn’t live it. But if you’re available, life gets huge. You’re really living it.” - Bill Murray

Wondering if I’m available for life.

To open a door.

Make me laugh.

Make me cry.

Challenge me.

Inspire me.

Thinking about the minutes I spend lost in my mind.

Carelessly grinding through the task at hand.

Paths that never cross.

Blank space.

Literally,

Killing time.

What if I made it my intention to be available for life?

Open.

Aware.

Ready.

Anticipating.

Expecting life to surprise me.

Unexpectedly.

Sometimes I treat life like a movie recorded on the DVR. I just want to fast-forward to the good parts and skip all the less-interesting stuff. But with life…I only get to play the movie once.

This can really change your perspective.

Do you feel it?

I think I’m getting there.

This isn’t “available” like an open door policy or time on your schedule.

It’s being present with the person across the room, excited about what you might discover about you, or them, or something completely off the agenda. Going into a meeting with a sense of curiosity instead of dread. Approaching the problem with fascination instead of frustration. Managing your interpersonal conflict with compassion instead of judgment. Making space for love to sneak in and catch you unprepared.

Letting each experience open before you as if it were brand new and filled with possibility.

A familiar song you’re hearing for the first time.

(OK that sounds kind of hard but what if you just made it your intention?)

Change your perspective on the good parts of the movie.

Life is calling you to a bigger story.

Right now.

Don’t miss it.

Be available.

 

*How could this mindset impact your life, your relationships, your leadership, your work?

 

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