“Community happens when people give their best to achieve a common purpose because they appreciate, enjoy and care deeply about the people with whom they are serving.”
Consider some of your most powerful, emotional and memorable work and life experiences.
For many of us our “best moments” involved accomplishing something challenging while working alongside people with whom we developed a strong connection.
Achieving the goal or addressing the need provided a temporary satisfaction. What we remember in the long run is the people with whom we shared the journey.
We are inspired and changed by these connections.
Maybe there is a story that comes to your mind right now. Faces of people who will stay with you for a lifetime.
Community brings out the best in us.
- In a community, we learn to appreciate the beautiful differences in other human beings.
- In a community, we soften our edges and learn to become vulnerable.
- In a community, we create a collective force that is greater than any individual.
- In a community, we let our weaknesses play to the strengths of others so that we can contribute our best.
- In a community, we are seen and appreciated for who we are, a fundamental human need.
- In a community, we have a purpose that transcends and yet inspires the organizational goal.
- In a community, we move from pretense toward authenticity and transparency.
- In a community, we stretch and challenge one another in an environment of mutual respect.
- In a community, we multiply our joys and share our difficulties.
- In a community, we tell our stories.
“In a community - WE are the story.”
A loving community provides the foundation for some of our deepest emotional needs; releasing our courage, passion and energy for the work at hand.
Is there a greater force for good on this planet?
What else can multiply leadership and elevate the potential of human beings like a powerful community?
We’ve seen this unfolding before our eyes.
Why then is creating a work environment that supports community so rarely a priority?
Start with three small but profound leadership changes.
- Make relationships a priority and create opportunities for people to connect on a personal level.
- Create a safe environment with values that support authenticity and mutual respect.
- Be the first to tell your story, to make yourself known, to show people it’s safe.
Don’t measure it. Don’t tie it to goals or outcomes. Don’t make it a campaign.
You can’t force community. Just let it unfold and nurture its growth. Start with your circle and let it expand from there. You already know what if feels like. You’ve been there.
Can’t change the whole organization?…then build a community where you are and expand your influence.
Got serious organizational challenges or a toxic culture? Consider the difficulties faced by other communities who came together to make a positive difference despite facing longstanding traditions and overwhelming obstacles.
And they did.
And you can too.
If you’re one of those people who dreams about changing the world or changing lives. This is where it happens. This is the path to building memories and meaning that will make the long days, the hard work, the laughter and the tears, all worthwhile.
I feel there is much here left unsaid. A blog post is such a small space for such a significant topic. I welcome your help to fill in the blanks.
“Love ain’t a thing, love is a verb.” - John Mayer